Bethany Living

Trying anything new is terrifying, isn’t it? Sometimes change is forced on us and sometimes we’re lucky enough to make proactive choices about life before events are hoisted upon us.

I’m new to Bethany Village and the Graceworks organization. I work in the marketing department and I get to write a lot of interesting content. Sometimes I get to meet residents and learn about their lives.

If you would have asked me a year ago if I’d be working at a Continuing Care Retirement Community in Dayton, Ohio, I’d have laughed and shook my head "no." After all, I had a corporate PR job and things were humming along fine. Then the economy collapsed and just like millions of other Americans, I was without a job.

I suppose my "move" to Bethany Village can somehow parallel a retiree’s decision to transition to our community. After all, retirement is a whole new phase of life and for many people, the options are endless. Should you stay in your home or move somewhere exotic? Move near children or downsize and travel nonstop? What if you want to stay close to where you’ve always lived but are done with the endless household chores? Asking yourself many questions can help you make a decision about where you would like to live during retirement… but the honest truth is that pretty much all change is scary.

I didn’t know what to expect, showing up to work on my first day at Bethany Village. After all, this was completely new for me and I didn’t personally know anyone who lived at Bethany. I didn’t know any of the employees and I’ve never done anything remotely close to human services…so some of the regulations and training classes made me nervous. Yet, a month later, it all sort of makes sense. Everything fits and people are very nice and helpful.

Moving is both scary and exciting, even if it’s planned way in advance. After all, you might be leaving possessions and good neighbors behind. I was sad about leaving my old job because I didn’t want to leave my friends. I realized soon after my last day at my old company that those friends weren’t going anywhere. Good friends always stick together, no matter what. Just like good neighbors.

So, if you’re lucky enough to be in retirement and considering a move, you might consider Bethany when checking out places to live. You might find you move next door to the friend of a lifetime in the process. It all starts with change and you can remain completely independent.  

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